If you have
been abused in some sort of way it can affect the way you
bring your children up and also have an affect on them. The
first time you have a baby can be very triggering but also
a lovely experience. Some people find they are worried about
hurting their children without meaning to because of what
happened to them. Just because you were abused it DOES NOT
mean you will go on to abuse....
Love your child the way you wanted to be
loved, a safe love that’s constant with boundaries and
caring.
Don't be afraid to love your child and hold
them etc, it is what they need.
Children can help you to heal from your experiences
too bye the unconditional love that they give to you and the
trust they put into you, it can be very rewarding.
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