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Sexual Confusion

 

The issues around your sexual orientation or sexuality, which becomes confused, blurred and damaged due to the sexual abuse you suffered, leaves you feeling that perhaps because of or due to abuse, it had made you gay, bisexual or just unsure of who you really are. If your abuse started at an early age, you probably grew up not knowing what was right, your personal boundaries were crossed and you may have had sex with other boys of your age or perhaps men again when you reached puberty, possibly re-enacting the abuse you suffered, or even to find the lost 'love that you thought you had been shown as a child.

If so, this time its down to sexual confusion, and how you see every situation as sexual, perhaps having sex with another man, more often than not due to sexual confusion, or in some cases will end up having sex with other men when drunk or on drugs, ending up even more confused and giving yourself immense pain

The simple answer to that your sexual confusion is based on the knowledge that your sexual awareness was triggered up at an early age, and you had no choice in that, and having been sexually abused, you became aware of what sex was all about, losing the innocence of your childhood.

Sexual orientation is who you are, and who you choose to have sex with, is something you want and choose to do, and does not confuse your feelings sexually with your chosen partners

Sexuality is based on how you would describe your sexual 'being' and who you believe yourself to be.

 

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