The feelings
you are experiencing are justified, but may add to the upset
for the survivor. S/he may feel responsible for upsetting
you. Seek support from a trusted friend, family member or
your GP.
It can be shocking hearing someone’s
horrific life stories when abused. be kind to yourself and
seek support if necessary.
There are support groups run for family and
friends of people who have been abused if you contact abuse
survivors' world a member of staff would be happy to help
you locate a support group in your local area or counselling
for yourself.
set firm boundaries and let your friend or
family member who has been hurt know you care and believe
them.
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